November 29, 2009

Lookbook: Love Me...

Love me... for who I am, and not what I do or how I look.

The red vest is my latest creation from my sewing machine. It took me a few weeks to make but soo worth it!

Never take friendship for granted but also be careful. What is their intention with you? Perhaps it is to share common interest, or maybe they find you entertaining to be with. But maybe it is because they like the way you look or they see you as someone they can use to meet their means and ends later.

I stand by the fact that 90% of guys wants to be friends with girls not because they appreciate us for who we are, but how we look and what we do. I can’t count how many of my former guy friends’ intention was to “get somewhere” with me, or use me as their ego boost, or use me as a contact.

The week I broke up with my ex of 2 years I got the most number of requests to hang out than over a span of a month any other time. Most were from guys whom I don’t interact with on regular basis. Coincidence? I think not.

How many of your guy friends would still be there for you if you were ugly? How many would still be your friend if you lost your assets and resources?