{Photos by Sabrina; wearing Forever 21 tartan trousers, Alexander Wang booties, Chanel bag}
A few days ago I realized one of my date pet peeves: when the guy orders for me. To put it in context, the guy ordered me wine without asking if I wanted some or what type I like. To put it in reason, I'm not 5 nor illiterate and unless I ask, I know best what I like, and I am the one who has to consume it. I've been told that it's a





that is so cool!
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K.
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I love this look dear!!!kisses
ReplyDeleteYou look so carefree and fab in this outfit :)
ReplyDeletegreat pants! you look beautiful
ReplyDeleteTake that, Mitt!
ReplyDeleteAnd those pants are incredible.
And that guy was probably a douche.
My boyfriend only orders for me after asking me exactly what I want and that doesn't bother me whatsoever. Now if he did so without even asking me what I wanted, we'd have problems!
ReplyDeleteI think not be asked what you like or what you prefer is rude. A gentleman can order but he needs to ask what you prefer first. UGH.
ReplyDeleteAnyway LOVE the pants and the jacket. Your pants remind me of my favorite plaid pants I had back in high school, wish I still had them...
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Jajajajaja!! I agree with you: who knows better what I want than myself?
ReplyDeleteAnyway, love your look even if its not my style! I'm in love with your chanel purse :D
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eLi
I think it is a cultural thing, but I'm not into it either. Why order for someone when you don't really know them? And LOL on that Romney comment.
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Haha, that is so annoying. It makes me feel like the "little woman" who can't do anything for herself.
ReplyDeleteCalling douchy behavior a "cultural thing" is rarely a good excuse. This is off track, but I remember reading that when US diplomats have US military escorts in Saudi Arabia, we're not supposed to include female soldiers because it would be viewed as an insult in the local culture. And when we provide US military escorts to Saudi diplomats in the US, we not supposed to include female soldiers for the same reason. I know we kiss their behinds because they have oil, but when do their diplomats get to respect our culture???
ReplyDeletePS - He was hoping to get a few drinks into you so he would seem more sauve.
I don't understand why they think it's ok to order for their dates, especially if you are just getting to know them! But in other news, I love those red pants.
ReplyDeletexo, Yi-chia
Always Maylee
You are hilarious and I totally understand your feeling of having someone order for you. I actually find it a little rude. And yes to your comment about Romney, thank goodness he wasn't elected.
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I'm glad he was not elected as well... Love the outfit, specially the pants!
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amazin tartan pants!!! like combo of them n denim shirt!!! perceft chic outfit!!!!))))))))) luv ur style sweety))))))) big xoxo 4 ya)))))
ReplyDeletei love your trouser they look fantastic!
ReplyDeletehow rude is that guy! you are a lot more level headed than me- if soeone had ordered for me i would have walked stright out. my pet hate is when a date eats off my plate- its ok if i give them a little something to try but not to eat something when im still enjoying my meal becuase the moment their fork touches my food i dont want to eat it (only beaucause im a vegetarian and get really picky abut my food touching anything meaty). my ex repeativly done that to the point where i just chucked my food at him in a resturant as he thought it was funny i got so upset about touching my food and droppped a massive piece of chicken in my salad. (sorry for releasing that I just remembered it and got really angry)
That's one of my pet peeves too, even though it's never happened to me before, haha. Love the look!
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I really like it your pants and your shoes are really lovely...
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LOL at your Romney comment!
ReplyDeleteOhhh that would drive me crazy - there's no need to order for someone.
ReplyDeleteKate xo petite-adventures.blogspot.ca
I LOVE HOW YOU ARE WEARING THOSE PANTS. I HAVE SOME SIMILAR ONES. THANKS FOR THE INSPIRATION, THEY HAVE BEEN SITTING IN THE CLOSET FOR SO LONG BECAUSE I COULDN'T FIGURE OUT HOW TO WEAR THEM. HAHA
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you are so adorable!
ReplyDeletehah thats the worst isn't it? Would definitely get on my nerves:( Cute outfit! love the look of denim+leather.
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Darling you are serving us some rebel chic realness at its finest and I am desperately coveting that Chanel bag! Love love love!
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You go girl!!
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ReplyDeleteThat look rocks. Love the pants <3
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Great outfit. I love your pants and shoes.
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Awesome plaid pants! I love the tough touches of leather :)
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Yes, I believe it is a cultural/generational thing actually. I however, like to order my own food, especially when it comes to wine, lol. Love your trousers! xx
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Love those pants on you and the boots are FIERCE! I also would hate it if someone else ordered for me. No guy ever has but my dad has and it annoys me!!
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Gorgeous look! I wouldn't like it if a guy ordered for me either! mainly because I don't drink! :)
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hey girl,
ReplyDeletehow are you? i've been with my current boyfriend since we were 13 (now 26), so i can't say i've ever been on a proper "dinner date" with someone to get to know, so i've never had this happen. however! if it was someone that didn't really know me, i'd be really annoyed. since my bf and i have been together a long time, sometimes we go on dinner dates now, and order for each other for fun, trying to guess at what the other would like.
in the meantime- i absolutely love those pants. i've been looking for the perfect pair of plaid pants (really run lola run style) myself... you look great. nice photos, as well.
i do hope you are doing well, dear. enjoy your weekend!
xox, amber
I love a lot your outfit and especially your purse !!
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haha love those pants and the look together is great and love your little rant! awesome.
ReplyDeleteHaha! I hate it when that happens. Another example. My family still treats me like a child even though I am 25 and asks my mum questions about me when I am sitting next to her. Can you imagine? ;-)
ReplyDeleteI love your vibrant look. Especially the beautiful smile you're wearing!
Love,
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i LOVE ur pants!! super cute!! LOL at ur last line!!! i couldn't keep my laughter in!! bahaha!! dang i hate when guys do that its soo rude! i don't care if its cultural some cultural things are douche-y and some guys need to correct such behavior smh!
ReplyDeleteI love your style. Fantastic look! Great shoes ♥
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ReplyDeleteGorgeous outfit,dear <3 Love your pants so much!
ReplyDeleteHaha agree, I only think it's okay when the guy already knows me so well he knows exactly what I want. Love your pants!
ReplyDeletei hate it when guys talk for you aswell :< like answer questions that were directed at you :< also i love your jeans :)
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Great look! Love your pants and your gorgeous bag!
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ahahaha that made me laugh so much. thank you :D
ReplyDeleteLol @ your pet peeve, I agree! Love love your tartan pants, it looks fantastic and you've styled it well!
ReplyDeletegreat outfit!I love the trousers!
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ReplyDeleteAmazing pants - i love how you styled everything.
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Love the outfit, the pants are so bold!! Kisses, Mary
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I love, love, love your shoes!!!
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I love your checkered pants! rockstar vibe outfit! perfect!
ReplyDeleteI hear ya!! I feel that way too whenever someone ordered for me without asking for my opinion. That's just rude :) Anyways, you look amazing in the outfit!!! Love it <3
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haha, I can't believe it if the guy doesn't even ask me what I want when I'm sitting right in front of him!! Love your checked pants babe!
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I always love plaid pants and these ones are great!
ReplyDeleteyou look wonderful and I hate when people order for me without asking rude!
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ReplyDeletehaha I would go crazy if a guy ordered for me! Love your trousers in the pics
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The guy must still like in the 1800s! geeez
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Cool pants!!!! Great photos :)
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You look really cool girl!!! Love your trousers! Xx
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Loving the plaid pants!
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oh my.. love your pants! <3
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That would annoy me too. I mean seriously, I'll order whatever I want thank-you-very-much.
ReplyDeleteYou look so beautiful. <3 I love those pants! :))
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your gorgeous!!! I love your outfit...your style is awesome....thanks for stopping by my blog! would you like to follow each other???? I really like your blog...i'm following you now..
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Everything about this outfit rocks, ESPECIALLY those pants! So bold and beautiful.
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Huge props for turning plaid and jean into a non-lumberjack looks somehow...
ReplyDeleteHmm...yeah, I'm particular about what I eat so I would hate it if someone ordered for me. That said, it's never been a problem because I order so fast and so much (I'm a 'sampler') they can never beat me to it ehehhe
love the whole look of the outfit.
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i love the plaid pants.
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Lovely photos dear!! would you like to follow each other? kisses love
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That is definitely not on! At least they could ask first!
ReplyDeleteAlso love those trousers on you!
I love this outfit.
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I really like your bag. ;)
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Love those pants, and gorgeous handbag!
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