February 12, 2013

I Don't Deal With You Anymore



{Photos by LoveK; wearing Club Monaco shirt, vintage fur coat, BCBG leggings}

I don't deal with you anymore.

You make me feel judged when I'm being myself.

You are only there when it suits you: "I got no plans, let's hang out" "You're sad? Well I'm out, talk later".

You hurt me and let others hurt me, and when I fight back you say I'm being unreasonable.

You talk the talk then go MIA when it's time for delivery; Talk is cheap, mofo.

You make me feel insignificant. You publicly put me down and think you're being funny.

You're selfish. You don't support me, my job or my passions, and you expect me to be 100% supportive of you.

You're self absorbed. You do and say whatever it is convenient and don't consider how it would affect me.

You only see me as someone who do stuff for and with you rather than as an individual.

And even after I say all these things, you still won't think I'm talking about you. That's how self absorbed you are.

Hence I don't deal with you anymore.


“I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.” - Marilyn Monroe

58 comments:

  1. ohhh so stunnin look!!!! mix of fur coat n bicker boots is amaaaaaazin!!!! have a fab day, sweety)))) xx

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  2. It sounds like not dealing with that person is the best possible decision for you. You don't need someone like that in your life. (And your boots are awesome)

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  3. beautiful text. Your leggins look great!
    Kisses, Feli

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  4. I feel like you're writing about my ex..seriously, those were dark times :D
    Man, love that fur coat! ^^

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  5. I'm in love with your fur coat!! It is GORGEOUS!!!
    BTW, you don't have to deal with people like this ;)
    xoxo

    eLi

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  6. Beautiful fur

    http://effecoco.blogspot.it/2013/02/w-il-carnevalefashion.html

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  7. Lovely writing, and nice shots! :)

    xo june.
    http://www.fuckhighclass.blogspot.com

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  8. Yeah, that person sounds like a jackass. Good for you for cutting them out -- when things in your life aren't adding up, it's time to start subtracting!

    Courtney ~ http://sartorialsidelines.com

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  9. love your hair and boots. I'm sorry your friend treats you that way. Hugs!!!!!!!!!

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  10. Guapa !!! Me chifla el abrigo
    Un besazo

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  11. Especially love the Monroe quote and your fur!;)

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  12. get it girl! You are such a wonderful person from what I always see here and you deserve so much more!

    Also, this outfit is perfect, the fur and the pants are awesome!

    xoxo
    Juliette Laura
    juliettelaura.blogspot.com

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  13. Very nice pics and I love coffee too. That coat looks great on you. Have a nice day.

    http://www.fashiondenis.com/

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  14. Good for you. Never make someone a priority if they only make you an option. You deserve more than that (and then some)!

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  15. Only people who treat others that way deserve to be treated like that...balance. You are way too amazing to have people like that in your life.

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  16. Hmm sounds like someone who doesn't need to be in your life. Kudos to you for realizing it!

    P.S. We watch Walking Dead on Netflix, so we haven't seen ANY of season 3 yet. When it is available though, you can bet we'll be binging on zombie goodness.

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  17. Love the jacket over your casual look, also, great expression of feelings. The best thing I ever did was cut out the people who so obviously opposed my passion.. yet still insisted on keeping on contact. Yeah, I don't think so.

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  18. Give me his name and i'll hunt him down!!!

    You can order the green tea kitkat from amazon
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    I'd rather buy it at a store so I can eat it immediately. I'm freaking impatient.. However, if I don't find it anytime soon..might as well order it so it'll get here sooner!

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  19. Great look. Great post...Thanks for share it..Would u like follow each other? Let me know. Kisses

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  20. I really like your outfit. The shoes are especially awesome. I agree with you.. your "friend" should accept you for who you are instead of trying to mold you. <3 Fwighting! I hope you feel better about it soon.

    www.msjess.com

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  21. The best thing I ever did was cutting people like that out of my life completely. I think most people have at least a few of those 'friends' who just drag them down & they would be better off without, so good for you for realizing & getting rid of them, you definitely deserve better! :)
    This is a great outfit too, totally in love with those boots!

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  22. I love how you managed to look warm and stylish at the same time! And I agree with Faiint, once you omit the negative people in your life, you'll be much happier!

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  23. you go girl, you tell him! cut him out i say. he doesn't deserve you.

    love, x
    blog | twitter

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  24. wise words from ms. monroe. know that you're worth more.

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  25. Some people don't deserve to be in your life. Love that quote from Monroe.
    Fabulous fur coat!

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  26. you're lookign lvoely. i looove your coat

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  27. just stopping in from the link up and I love your blog! hope you can check mine out too! xo

    Steph
    http://allthingsprettyandlittle.blogspot.com/

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  28. That was a good read. Very honest too. As I was reading it, I realized how much it reminded me of a former friend.

    Anyway, love the coat and the shoes.

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  29. amazing coat girl!
    love the effortless look.
    Would love for you to come see my blog, if you'd like. :)
    xxo
    ola
    www.stylesbyola.com

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  30. great look! you look effortlessly cool!

    Lindsey
    http://thriftandshout.blogspot.com

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  31. hey girl grea tjacket andthanks for ur visit!! followed u on google plus...do come back :D
    happy v day! new post is up sweets :D

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  32. So what eyeliners have you spent "big bucks" on? Maybe I'll do the same, hahaha ...

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  33. Love this look, really cool! The boots are doubly cool! Hey don't let any unworthy people bring you down and affect you!

    Fang Ting
    ftashion

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  34. Yup! This is great, never be are people who make you feel judged or like you can't be yourself. Great post!

    xo,
    Jamie

    www.inspirationlush.com

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  35. You look amazing dear
    xx the cookies
    much love
    samecookiesdifferent.blogspot.com

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  36. Out with the bad in with the good!! Also a great quote ending. I love your coat! xx/Madison

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  37. Hi dear, these are some powerful words, love it and it reminded me of a few people. Love your beautiful coat and those fantastic studied boots.

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  38. Great style dear, and I love your coat !!! Amazing outfit :)

    I invite you to join my WORLDWIDE GIVEAWAY !!

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  39. Sometimes, it's good to let some people go because there are much better people and times in our future! Love this look, girl, you look hot!! :)

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  40. Great style!
    Love the fur<33

    Perfect look!!

    livingthrufashion.blogspot.com

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  41. Beautiful pictures and great outfit! Really like that fur coat! Thank you so much for your comment on my blog, would you like to follow each other?

    xx
    www.lemizysconfessionbook.com

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  42. that vintage coat is just awesome!

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  43. Well said. It's good to remind yourself from time to time not to deal with negative people that suck the positiveness out of you!
    Btw, I really love that fur vintage coat you have! Looks like it's snowing too =D Stay warm babe =)

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  44. Don't deal with people like that at all! I like to surround myself with people and things that make me happy.

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  45. You go girl! Give 'em hell. Lol! Been there. It's best to end unhealthy relationships. Hope things are looking sunnier now. I love how you mixed the vintage fur with your street clothes. Yummy boots! Thanks for visiting me @stylewisebydebra! :)

    Debra@stylewisebydebra.com

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  46. Really love your outfit ! And your post too ... we shouldn't care about people putting us down all the time.

    fashionfixeshearts.blogspot.com

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