May 8, 2014

Done



 {Photos by Zach; wearing J Crew chambray blouse, Chanel bag, American Eagle skirt, Urban Outfitters belt}

I've been sleeping a lot lately. Not sure if it's due to the weather change or that I'm active in going to the gym again. Whatever it is, it's making me sleep at 10pm. I feel like my grandma, and it's cutting into my Netflix time.

An acquaintance has been rubbing me the wrong way. He always try to give advises in things he has no business in. He talks down to me. He is aloof. He views the glass as always half empty. He has a temper that he can't control and he takes it out on others.

He realized that I wanted to cut ties with him so he wanted to meet, and chat about his perspectives. But I have no interest in him or his perspectives. I know that a lot of things he has done/is doing is unintentional, because he's socially unaware. But it's not like he genuinely apologized nor is he is trying to be more sensitive. So I'm done with it.

It amazes me that people like him can program complicated algorithms yet cannot grasp basic social protocols.

30 comments:

  1. super cute pictures! I understand about your friend, and I'm sorry you are going through that. So annoying! Hugs and keep being your amazing self :)

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  2. Love a good photobomb by the peace tower.

    Sorry about friend-related awkwardness. Sometimes you just have to remove yourself from toxic relationships, which it sounds like that one is.

    P.S. Pom and I are up for Union 613 Speakeasy when you are!

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  3. Haha who is this acquaintance?

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  4. You have to understand, that's just how I am. I can't help it.

    NO! Behavior has consequences...adults have to understand that!

    Cut him loose--unless it's me...I can't help myself. LOL!

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  5. Gorgeous look and I love the background as well. Haha... I know plenty of people like this and it really annoys me, I tend to let them alone and not talk to them much. They are oblivious, no matter how many times I tell them to the things they do. A lot of book smarts, but no common sense, haha!! Hope you're having a great week doll xx

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  6. I absolutely cannot stand people who always try to influence you with their idealisms. It's completely annoying. I know how you feel. A couple of years ago, I had to cut a couple of friends loose, when they couldn't see everything with a glass half full approach.

    xxDenysia Yu
    http://thatlaitgirl.com

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  7. Some people are not worth having in your life.. it just means you don't gel.. and who wants to be around someone who brings you down.. life is hard enough:)

    You look really sweet in this outfit... love the skirt :)

    Thank you for your comment... it's tough waiting for someone to come along and realize how great we could be together.. that and I had found the love of my life and it didn't work out... I am pretty sure I cannot handle another heart break like that.. oh well :-/ Have a really great day :)

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  8. I like you with this skirt ;)

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  9. Gorgeous love your styling darling!!

    SSSx
    www.stylestreetstalker.com

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  10. Social awareness is such a crucial aspect of our existence in this world and if we feel that someone is trying to give off negative vibes around, then we can choose to avoid them for the better. I just hope he would somehow change and be aware of his behavior.

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  11. Love the denim shirt with this skirt. Thanks so much for your visit and comment
    xoxo

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  12. I have an acquaintance like that too. He's incredibly bright, but sometimes, he says the rudest things because he's socially awkward. He even read a book on how to be better at communicating, but it didn't really help.

    On a lighter note, I like your outfit! It's simple, but classy.

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  13. This is your grandma speaking and I say sleep is good :)
    Maybe he's just bluntly honest?

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  14. I adore your outfit and the bag on my wish list. Why some people can be so annoying sometimes, you do the right thing to just simply ignore him. I wish I can sleep that early. I actually do when my husband is home.

    xo
    Sam
    http://fabulouspetite.blogspot.com

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  15. And I even have a friend who interrupts me on what I say and keeps on arguing with me indirectly telling me that I have always been wrong. My God, what's wrong with these kind of people?!

    I love your look though. :)

    Love,
    Ericka of http://myfashionfelicity.blogspot.com
    bloglovin: http://www.bloglovin.com/en/blog/11492583

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  16. You look adorable. I love that skirt.It's good you cut ties with him!!

    xx Mira

    www.glamdevils.com

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  17. The person you've described sounds a lot like a less socially aware version of my boyfriend. Computer programmer, hacker, IT guy, great at the finite things in our servers and running things that help and run large systems but when it comes to human interaction and recognizing people's intentions, emotions...they gotta try extra hard. It's too bad that this fella has only begun to notice now too late as I do agree, there is an amount that we can accept and then when it's crossed we need to let the other person know that's it's enough or just leave. Even though we know that certain people are limited in certain skills, certain things just don't need to be accepted or changed if we can just leave them behind without anything being hurt.

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  18. cute outfit...! amazing place!!!

    Bárbara - BLOGTHEDREAMS.COM

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  19. Ah! You think 10 is early? Try 7. Seriously, working full time, pregnant and with a toddler. You're exhausted before your day even begins. Lol. I think you're lucky!!! :) As for your friend, maybe he just needs someone to be blunt? I dunno, sometimes people are just dense and don't pick up on signals. Hope you feel better. <3

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  20. Gorgeous Chanel bag - forever on my wishlist haha! I would suggest that you don't waste anymore time on this acquaintance - our time is limited, so don't waste it on people who don't appreciate the value of it!

    http://findmethoseheels.blogspot.co.uk/

    x

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  21. some people just like to ignore the importance of social interaction

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  22. Woo. So beautiful and fashion. Love these pictures<3333
    http://youlikejust.wallinside.com/

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  23. i love your outfit- that breezy skirt looks SO pretty with the chambray! and i hate when sleep cuts into my netflix time, too ;)

    and i feel you on the pessimistic, over-bearing acquaintances. cutting ties is always hard, but once you weed them out your life gets so much better.

    xo marlen
    Messages on a Napkin

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  24. Loving this look :)

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  25. amzing outfit and photos, you look perfect!

    http://ladyparisienne.blogspot.fr/

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  26. Adorable outfit.
    http://sophialastyles.blogspot.co.uk

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  27. wonderful pics, sweety <3 <3 <3

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